prosthetic knowledge
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Here's Why Your Relationship is Doomed, and Other Confessions of a Therapist (Gawker) So are most marriages doomed to fail?
It is an archaic institution designed to expire concurrent with a woman’s childbearing years, just like in the olden days. The idea of two people changing together and—more importantly— accepting each others changes over a 50-year span is delusional unless that person is undeniably your best friend in the whole world. Ever.
Needs-based relationships are doomed to fail, as are ones based on potential instead of reality. And if you hold any secrets—past or current—from your partner, your relationship is doomed to fail. A relationship based on sex is doomed to fail. Good sex alone cannot carry a relationship…When time, benevolence, mystery, and positive communication decrease within a relationship, the sex is sure to follow in direct proportion.
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“For many societies, virginity is so unimportant there isn’t even a word for the concept in their language.” — Taken from the article, ‘The Prehistory of Prop 8’ at Psychology Today, which is an interesting article, arguing the concept of the natural union of man and women is … well … culturally and historically … bullshit
